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  1. Valerunner

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Is it possible to get my bloodwork checked out via the NHS when selfmedicating?
  2. Valerunner

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    It's perfectly fine, I'd rather people actually questioned my choices, because they raise the questions I may gloss over, and in the end regret not having asked myself. I can definitely have some blood checks done, that's easy enough. Most of the selfmedicating stories I've heard are pretty...
  3. Valerunner

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Thanks, I've looked into doing this for years now, hoping somehow that if I knew enough I can do it, not really realizing the financial stress it'll bring. Now, it's actually a possibility. I'm putting myself on 4mg estrogen and 250mg spironolactone, which is the recommended dosage for my BMI...
  4. Valerunner

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Thanks~ Now I'm gonna sound like a douchenozzle but I can't actually remember you. Also, just for discussion, what's everyone's stance on selfmedication? Currently working towards a month's batch. :3
  5. Valerunner

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Dear GOD I've not been here in a while! Hello, everyone! Quick update: I am now officially on the NHS waiting list! PLUS got a month's work, so can't wait to get started on that and get myself started on the hormone treatment. Also, officially six months fulltime now! WOOP.
  6. Valerunner

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    I came to terms with it a few years ago, but never really did anything to fix it, waited until University to do so. Waited a bit too long, but at least I'm here now. :) And as much as I would love the burden of having to come out to my parents to be gone, I'm deathly afraid of it. My mum is...
  7. Valerunner

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Okay, good news, everyone! As of the 4th of June, I will now be a fulltime woman! :D Paperwork with the Uni has now been settled, house ready for the summer, now all I need to do is find myself a job, and figure out how in the HELL I'm going to tell my parents about this.
  8. Valerunner

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    How does the 5th sound? Still no idea where, though. This also goes for anyone in the area.
  9. Valerunner

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Meetup? I leave on the 7th and will NOT miss this chance.
  10. Valerunner

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Well, I'm HOOOOME! I'm free on the Monday afternoon if any Cardiffians are still around!
  11. Valerunner

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    ...dammit. I was going home on the 17th too. When do you come back?
  12. Valerunner

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Okay, if any of you Cardiff folk are gonna be there during the Christmas period, what say you all to a meetup?
  13. Valerunner

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    I don't know, I've just been in flux. Though by "slightly pissed", I mean three pints of JD and apple juice (called the Applejack) plus some other stuff. It's definitely not the convention thing, I mean beforehand I already established that I'm into girls in both modes. I'll see how it pans out...
  14. Valerunner

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    So now I'm torn. Okay, so I went to the AberPride social, and got ever so slightly pissed on apple juice and JD, and ended up in a sofa in the arms of two gay men. Now that scenario was fine, I mean everyone has gay experiences, right? Soon as I come out of the pub, everyone else now starts...
  15. Valerunner

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Hm. The moment I move to Aberystwyth, YOU ALL MOVE TO CARDIFF. damn.
  16. Valerunner

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    I would go, but trans are too expensive. And Kinova, where are you in Wales?
  17. Valerunner

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    It's hard to sense helpless compassion and not caring on a message board, I mean the whole forum is basically a hivemind when it comes to these things, but as Byrus said, there's nothing we can really do other than sympathize. I'm sorry if that seemed like we don't care. On the bright side, if...
  18. Valerunner

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Not really; we're in a student village and bunk beds are rare.
  19. Valerunner

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Just wanted to post here for advice, and probably because I liked reliving it. Okay, so as said in the Laughing Cupboard, I went out en femme, with fishnets, heels and a leotard to a University social and got neutral to a good response. One guy even wanted to take me to his flat "to show me off...
  20. Valerunner

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Lucky you, I was still in quarantine then. I would've frocked up and everything.
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